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Lesson 5 of 11 · about 22 minutes

Email, Browsing and Online Privacy

You'll be able to

  • Explain why a stolen email account puts every other account at risk
  • Tell the difference between encryption in transit (TLS) and end-to-end encryption, and know what Gmail and iCloud Mail do
  • Set cookie, tracking and ad controls in your browser and know what private browsing does not hide
  • Remove your address and phone number from people-search sites and Google results
  • Check your social media privacy settings and know what not to post

Start here

Your email account is the key ring for your whole online life. Almost every other account can be reset by a link sent to your inbox, so whoever gets into your email can get into your bank, your shopping sites and your photos. Protect it first and best. The rest of this lesson is about keeping your messages, your browsing and your personal details from being collected, sold or used against you. Nothing here needs special skill. Most of it is a setting you flip once.

Figures in this lesson are as of October 2026. Menu names move around between versions of Windows, macOS, iPhone and Android software. If a button is not where we say, look for the same word nearby or use the search box at the top of Settings.

Why email is the master key

Think about what happens when you forget a password. You click "Forgot password." The website sends a link to your email. You click it and choose a new password. That is how nearly every site on the internet works.

Now picture a stranger sitting inside your inbox. They click "Forgot password" on your bank's website. The link lands where they can see it. They choose the new password. You are locked out of your own account, and you may not know for days.

That is why this course keeps coming back to email. A crook who takes over your inbox can also read your old messages, find out where you bank and what you owe, and write to your friends as you. The FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) logged 191,561 phishing and spoofing complaints in 2025, with reported losses of about $215.8 million (as of October 2026, from the IC3 2025 report). Phishing means a fake message that tries to trick you into giving up a password, a code or money. Many of those messages are aimed straight at your email login.

Two things protect an inbox better than anything else. A long, unique password that you use nowhere else, and two-step sign-in, which means a second proof such as a code or a tap on your phone. Lesson 3 covers both. If you do nothing else in this course, do those two for your email account.

What "secure email" really means

You will hear the words "secure email" a lot. They are used loosely, so here is what matters.

Encryption means scrambling information so only someone with the right key can read it. Email gets two very different kinds.

The first is encryption in transit, also called TLS. Picture a postcard that travels inside a locked mail truck. Nobody on the road can read it. But the post office at each end can, because it has to sort it and deliver it. TLS protects your message while it moves from one mail company to the next. It does not stop the mail companies themselves from reading, scanning or storing the message.

The second is end-to-end encryption. Picture a letter sealed in a box that only you and your friend have the key to. The post office handles the box but cannot open it. With end-to-end encryption, only the sender and the receiver can read the message. The company in the middle holds no key.

Most everyday email, including the mail you get from Gmail, Outlook and iCloud, is protected by TLS and is not end-to-end encrypted. That is fine for most people. A thief on the public internet cannot read your recipe swap. The bigger risks for a homeowner are a stolen password and a convincing fake message, not someone tapping the wire.

Do this today: check that a message was protected in transit (Gmail)

  1. Open a message in Gmail on a computer.
  2. Look near the sender line for a small lock icon. Google says a gray lock means standard TLS protection.
  3. If you see a red open lock, Google says the message was not encrypted in transit. Do not send or reply with sensitive details, and tell the sender their mail service is not protecting the message.

What the big email services do, as of October 2026

ServiceProtected in transit (TLS)End-to-end encryptedWhat to know
Gmail (Google)Yes, on every account, when the other side also supports itNo for ordinary accounts. Google lists S/MIME and client-side encryption only for work or school accountsGmail shows a red open lock when a message was not encrypted in transit
iCloud Mail (Apple)YesNo. Apple says iCloud Mail is not end-to-end encrypted, even with Advanced Data Protection onApple holds the keys. Your saved passwords in Apple's Passwords app are end-to-end encrypted, mail is not
Outlook.com (Microsoft)Check Microsoft's current help pageCheck Microsoft's current help pageOptions differ between free and paid accounts. Read the page before you rely on it
A private email service built around end-to-end encryptionYesYes, but usually only between two users of the same kind of service or with extra steps for outsidersCosts money or limits features, and you must keep your own recovery key safe

When a private email service matters

For most households, Gmail, iCloud Mail or Outlook with a strong password and two-step sign-in is a sound choice. A private service built around end-to-end encryption starts to make sense in a few cases. You regularly send tax returns, medical records or account numbers by email and cannot use a secure portal instead. You are caring for someone and exchanging sensitive paperwork with a relative. Or you simply do not want a big advertising company to hold years of your messages.

The tradeoffs are real. If you lose the password and the recovery key at a service that cannot reset your account, your mail may be gone for good. Messages to people on other services may not be end-to-end protected at all. And a private service does nothing to stop phishing. A fake message still works the same way on any inbox.

The safer habit that costs nothing: do not put Social Security numbers, bank account numbers or passwords in the body of an email, whichever service you use. Call, use the company's secure message page, or mail it.

Spam, aliases and keeping your inbox quiet

Spam is junk mail you did not ask for. Most mail services filter it for you. You make the filter smarter by using it.

  • Use the "Report spam" or "Report junk" button instead of just deleting. It teaches the filter.
  • Do not click "Unsubscribe" in a message from a company you have never heard of. That can tell a crook your address is live. Unsubscribe only from stores and groups you actually joined.
  • Never open attachments you did not expect, even from a name you know. A friend's hacked account sends convincing mail.
  • If a message says your account is in trouble, do not use the link in it. Open a new browser window and type the company's address yourself, or call the number on your card. The FTC says a real company does not send you a link to update your payment information.

An email alias is a second address that forwards to your real inbox. It lets you hand out an address that is not your main one. If that alias starts getting junk, you shut it off and your real address stays clean. Apple's Hide My Email makes random forwarding addresses when you use Sign in with Apple, and Apple says each address can be used only by the site where you made it. Many free services, including Gmail, let you add a plus sign and a word to your address, such as yourname+store@gmail.com, which still lands in your inbox and shows you who sold your address. Some websites reject that format, so treat it as a small trick, not a lock.

A simple plan many families like: one address for banking and government, which you never give to a store; one address for shopping and coupons; one older address for junk. If you have only one, it is still worth creating a second for the sites that push offers at you.

Your browser: cookies, trackers and private windows

A browser is the program you use to visit websites, such as Chrome, Safari, Edge or Firefox. Websites and apps follow what you do. The FTC lists the tools they use as cookies, pixels, device fingerprinting and advertising identifiers on phones.

A cookie is a small file a website saves in your browser so it can remember you. Some are helpful, like the one that keeps items in your shopping cart. A third-party cookie comes from a different company than the site you are visiting. Advertisers use them to follow you from site to site and build a picture of your interests. A tracker is any code that records what you do and sends it to an advertiser or data company.

Set it once

Do this today: block third-party cookies

  1. Chrome on a computer: select the three dots, then Settings, then Privacy and security, then Third-party cookies. Choose the block option. Google warns some sites may not work as well with it on.
  2. Safari on a Mac: choose Safari, then Settings, then Privacy, and select "Prevent cross-site tracking." Apple says this deletes third-party cookies and website data unless you visit and use that site directly.
  3. iPhone: open Settings, scroll to Apps, tap Safari, and look for "Prevent Cross-Site Tracking." Keep it on.
  4. Android (Chrome): open Chrome, tap the three dots, then Settings, then Privacy and security, then Third-party cookies.
  5. Edge and Firefox: both have a Privacy page in Settings with a tracking protection choice. Pick the stronger setting if you do not mind a site breaking now and then.

If a site stops working after this change, turn off the block just for that site. Most browsers let you add an exception.

When a site pops up a cookie notice, the FTC suggests choosing the option that allows only the cookies the site needs to work.

What private browsing does and does not do

A private window is called Incognito in Chrome and Private Browsing in Safari. When you close it, the browser forgets your history and cookies from that session. That is useful if you are shopping for a surprise gift on a shared computer.

It does not make you invisible. Chrome's own help page says websites you visit, including Google sites, can still observe what you do, and so can the organization that runs your network, such as your internet provider or employer. A private window will not stop a scam site from seeing you, and it will not protect you from a virus.

Search engines and ad settings

Search engines make money by showing ads, and they shape those ads from what you search for. You can turn off personalized ads and still see ads. They just stop being tailored to your past searches. The FTC suggests turning off personalized ads in your browser and in your phone's advertising privacy section. You can do that in the settings of your Google or Apple account, and on an iPhone under Settings, Privacy and Security, Apple Advertising. Look for the words "personalized ads" or "ad personalization."

Some search engines say they do not keep your search history or build an ad profile. Those are the companies' own claims. If this matters to you, open the search engine's privacy page and read what it says it collects. It is your call. Switching costs nothing and you can switch back.

One more caution. Scammers pay for ads that appear at the top of search results, so a fake "customer support" number or a fake copy of a utility's website can be the first thing you see. The FTC warns that top results are often paid ads. For banks, utilities and tech support, type the address yourself or use the number printed on your statement.

Common mix-ups

  • Claim: "If a website has the padlock and starts with https, it is safe." What the evidence shows: The padlock means the connection between you and that site is scrambled so outsiders cannot read it. It says nothing about who owns the site. A scammer can get a padlock for a fake bank page. Check the spelling of the address and how you got there, not the lock.
  • Claim: "Private browsing hides everything I do." What the evidence shows: It clears your history on your own device. Websites and your network can still see you, as Chrome's help page says.
  • Claim: "Deleting an email deletes it everywhere." What the evidence shows: The copy at the other end, backups and the mail company's servers can all keep it for a time.
  • Claim: "I have nothing to hide, so privacy settings do not matter." What the evidence shows: The harm is rarely embarrassment. It is a scammer who knows your birthday, your relatives and your street, and uses it to sound real.

Data brokers and people-search sites

A data broker is a company that collects and sells personal information about people it has no direct relationship with. Privacy Rights Clearinghouse says brokers draw on public records, social media, purchase histories, loyalty programs, app use and location tracking. A people-search site is a kind of broker that puts your name, age, home address, phone number and the names of relatives on a public web page for anyone to read.

Scammers love these pages. They use them to pick targets, to find a grandchild's name for a fake emergency call, and to sound like they know you. Taking your details off is not a cure-all, but it removes a free tool from the crooks' kit.

How to get your name off, in order

Do this today: start with Google and the biggest people-search sites

  1. Search your own name plus your town, in quotes. Note which sites show your address or phone number.
  2. Use Google's "Results about you" tool. Google says it can help you find and request removal of search results showing your address, phone number or email, and you can turn on alerts for new ones. Google can only remove results from its own Search. The other site still has the page unless its owner removes it.
  3. On each people-search site, look for a link at the bottom of the page called "Do not sell or share my information," "Opt out" or "Privacy." Follow its steps. You usually need to find your listing, give an email address and click a confirmation link. Use your second email address for this.
  4. Write down what you asked and when. Under California's privacy law a business has 45 days to answer a request (it can extend that), and other brokers set their own time frames, so note the date and check back.
  5. Check again in a few months. Privacy Rights Clearinghouse notes that a one-time deletion does not stop a broker from collecting your data again.

California residents can use a state tool called DROP (Delete Request and Opt-out Platform), run by the California Privacy Protection Agency, which sends one free deletion request to every registered broker in that state. It launched January 1, 2026, and brokers had to begin processing requests on August 1, 2026. Idaho has no equivalent tool that we could confirm as of October 2026, so Idahoans go site by site.

Some companies sell a service that does this opt-out work for a yearly fee. You can do the same work yourself for free, with patience. Whether the fee is worth your time is your call. Check any paid service on the FTC's and the Better Business Bureau's pages before you give it your name and address.

Social media: settings and what not to post

Social media is where many crooks do their homework. They look at your public posts, your friends list and your photos. A few settings and habits shut most of that door.

Do this today: tighten a social media account

  1. Open the app and find Settings, then Privacy (on some apps it is Settings and privacy, then Privacy checkup).
  2. Set who can see your future posts to Friends, not Public.
  3. Look for a setting that limits old public posts and use it.
  4. Set who can see your friends list to Only me or Friends.
  5. Turn off the option that lets search engines link to your profile.
  6. Review who can send you friend requests and messages. Limit it to friends of friends.
  7. Turn on two-step sign-in for the account.

Then think before you post. The things that help a crook are small and ordinary:

  • Your full birth date, your mother's maiden name, the name of your first pet or the street you grew up on. These are the answers to common security questions.
  • Trip plans. Post the beach photos after you are home.
  • Photos that show your house number, your car's license plate, a boarding pass, a new credit card or your driver's license.
  • Video and audio clips of your voice or your grandchildren's voices. The FTC warns that a short clip can be used with a voice-cloning program to make a caller sound like a relative.
  • Anything you would not tell a stranger at the counter.

Quizzes and chain posts that ask for your first car, your high school or your favorite teacher are a favorite trick. They are collecting the answers to your security questions. Skip them.

Example: Margaret in Oakfield

Margaret, 71, of the invented town of Oakfield, used the same password for a crafts store and for her email. The store was hacked. A crook tried the stolen password on her email and it worked. Within an hour he clicked "Forgot password" at her bank, read the reset link in her inbox and changed her online banking password. Margaret noticed only when a text from the bank said her password had changed.

What it cost her: about six hours on the phone with the bank and the email company, a new debit card, and two weeks of watching every transaction. She lost no money because she called within minutes. The fix cost nothing: a new, unique email password (10 minutes) and two-step sign-in on the inbox (5 minutes). Fifteen minutes up front would have stopped the whole thing.

Do this today: a 45-minute privacy clean-up

  1. Change your email password to a long, unique one and turn on two-step sign-in (10 to 15 minutes).
  2. Create a second email address for shopping and coupons (5 minutes).
  3. Turn on cross-site tracking prevention or block third-party cookies in your browser (5 minutes).
  4. Turn off personalized ads in your Google or Apple account (5 minutes).
  5. Search your name, then use Google's Results about you and opt out at the first two people-search sites that list you (15 minutes).
  6. Switch your social media posts to Friends and delete old quizzes and chain posts (10 minutes).

Reporting angle

If a message looks like phishing, do not click it. Forward email to reportphishing@apwg.org (the Anti-Phishing Working Group) and texts to 7726 (SPAM), then report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. If you gave away a password or code, change that password right away, then change it anywhere else you used it, and follow the steps at IdentityTheft.gov. If money was taken, also report it to the FBI's ic3.gov. Idahoans can file a consumer complaint with the Idaho Attorney General's Consumer Protection Division at ag.idaho.gov, phone 208-334-2424 or 1-800-432-3545. Keep evidence: take a screenshot of the message, save the full email with its header information if you can, and write down dates, times, addresses and amounts. Do not delete the original until you have reported it.

Questions and answers

Is Gmail safe enough for banking and tax papers?

Gmail protects your mail in transit with TLS and has strong sign-in options. It is as safe as your password and your second step make it. Still, use your bank's secure message page for account numbers and your tax preparer's portal for returns. Mail attachments get forwarded and saved in many places.

What is the difference between spam and phishing?

Spam is junk advertising. Phishing is a trick: a message made to look like your bank, the IRS or a friend, built to steal a password, a code or money. Spam is annoying. Phishing is dangerous. Report both, click neither.

If I turn on every privacy setting, will websites stop working?

A few will act strangely when you block third-party cookies. Most browsers let you allow one site at a time. Start with the standard blocking setting and loosen it for the one site that complains.

Does clearing my cookies help?

It signs you out of websites and forgets saved choices, and it can reduce ads that follow you. Chrome puts this under More, then Delete browsing data, where you pick a time range and tick "Cookies and other site data." It is a tidy-up, not a shield.

Can I get my information off the internet completely?

No. You can cut it down a lot. Google removes results from its own Search, brokers remove listings when asked, but the original records, such as property records at your county, stay public. Expect to shrink your footprint, not erase it.

Should I worry that my email provider reads my mail?

Big providers scan mail for spam and viruses by machine. If you do not want a company to be able to read your mail at all, end-to-end encryption is the only real answer, and it has the tradeoffs listed above. Read the privacy page of your provider so you know what it says it does.

Is it safe to click "Sign in with Google" or "Sign in with Apple"?

It can be safer than making another password, because you use one strong account. The tradeoff is that the sign-in company learns which sites you use. Apple's version can hide your real email address with a random forwarding address.

My email was hacked. What do I do first?

From a device you trust, change the password. Turn on two-step sign-in. Look in the settings for forwarding rules or connected apps you did not set up and remove them. Then change passwords on your bank and any account that uses that email. Lesson 9 walks through the whole first hour in order.

Hard questions

Is it worth paying for a private email service?

For most people, no. The cheapest big win is a strong password and two-step sign-in on the account you already have. A private service helps if you send sensitive files by email often and cannot use a secure portal, or if you do not want a big company to hold your mail. It does nothing about phishing, and if you lose the recovery key you can lose the mail. If you try one, begin with a second account so you can learn it with low stakes.

Can I really stop companies from tracking me?

You can cut it down a good deal, but not stop it. Blocking third-party cookies, turning off personalized ads, trimming app permissions and using fewer logins gets you most of the benefit. Total invisibility is not realistic for someone who uses a phone, a bank and a store card. Aim for less, not zero.

Is a VPN part of the answer for browsing privacy?

A VPN is a service that routes your internet traffic through another company's computer. It hides your activity from your local network, such as a coffee shop's Wi-Fi, and shows your activity to the VPN company instead. It does not stop cookies or the sites you log in to from knowing who you are. For a typical home user with a protected home network, a VPN is not the first thing to buy. Lesson 4 gives the longer answer.

I cannot afford a paid service to remove my information. Am I stuck?

No. Everything in this lesson is free. Google's Results about you tool is free. Each people-search site's opt-out is free, though the forms are tedious. Set aside 20 minutes a week for a month and do two sites each time. Ask a grown grandchild to sit with you; the forms are easier with a second pair of eyes.

If my data is already out there, why bother?

Because the crooks work in volume. They go after the easy listings first. Removing your phone number from a dozen sites and tightening your social media will not make you perfect. It still moves you from the easy pile to the harder one. And the biggest step, a strong email password with two-step sign-in, stops the worst outcome whether your data is out there or not.

Check yourself

1. Why is your email account called the master key?

2. According to Apple, is iCloud Mail end-to-end encrypted?

3. You open a private or Incognito window. Who can still see what you do on the sites you visit?

4. A web address starts with https and shows a padlock. What does that tell you?

5. What does Google say its 'Results about you' tool can do?

6. A post says 'Two weeks in Florida, house is all ours until the 20th!' with a photo of your front door. What is the main risk?

Terms in this lesson

Encryption
Scrambling information so only someone with the right key can read it.
TLS
The lock that protects email and web traffic while it travels between computers. The mail company can still read the message at each end.
End-to-end encryption
Scrambling a message so only the sender and the person receiving it can read it. Not even the company in the middle holds the key.
A small file a website stores in your browser so it can remember you. A third-party cookie comes from a different company than the site you are visiting and is often used to follow you across sites.
Tracker
Code on a web page or in an app that records what you do and sends it to an advertiser or data company.
Data broker
A company that collects and sells personal information about people it has no direct relationship with.
Email alias
A second address that forwards to your real inbox, so you can keep your main address private.
Phishing
A fake message that tries to trick you into giving up a password, code or money.

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